Disclaimer: This is not a cutesy-cute movie. Do not whip this one out on a first date or anything. No, no. This is thought-provoking with some very emotionally charged parts as well. You may want a few tissues on hand, and plenty of time to digest it afterwards (the movie, not the tissues).
Here's why it packs a punch: it's such a seemingly simple idea, and yet it's easier said than done. Do a favor for 3 other people -- a big one -- and tell them to pass on the kindness to somebody else.
The trouble is that sometimes, honestly, our own world consumes us. The to do lists, the fatigue, the expectations of others and ourselves, and trying to keep up with what life brings gets all of our focus. We forget sometimes to look beyond ourselves. I'll freely admit that I often fall into this trap. But I'll also openly say that I am trying to work on it. Daily.
And this movie pops into my head a lot. I wish I could be more like Trevor.
I've been on the receiving end of a lot of "paying it forward" lately with this move and especially with setting up my classroom. People have donated time to both causes, and many have provided things I needed or could put to use in either my home or with my kids. I am so, so grateful for all of this help. Every time I use something somebody has passed on to me, I am flooded with thankfulness all over again.
I also get excited when I look at some of the things I have because I know that I'll eventually not use it or will replace it, but I can pass it on the same way somebody once passed it on to me. I know firsthand the weight that something as simple as a passed on set of art supplies or books or mixing bowls or furniture can lift, and it's great to know that someday I'll be able to do that, too.
Meanwhile, I'm looking for ways I can pay it forward in small ways. And I'm open to suggestions. :)
If you have about 10 minutes to spare, go ahead and watch this. If not, just watch the first 2 or so. It's a summary of the whole Pay It Forward idea behind the movie.
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